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Sample Accommodations for Anxious Kids
While each child is different, the following compilation includes commonly
implemented interventions for anxious children. These items may serve
as a starting point for families who are looking for specific suggestions
for problem areas, or for parents who are just learning of the types
of issues that their anxious child may be contending with.
Classroom environment
Anxious children perform best in a calm, supportive, but organized
classroom. Because change and uncertainty can be unsettling, a structured
classroom, calmly disciplined will let children feel safe and know what
to expect. An ideal situation is a teacher who maintains authority positively,
using reason and respect rather than fear for punishment.
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Seating within classroom
Anxious children often struggle with the unlikely fear that they will
get in trouble, seating away from more rambunctious classmates will
be less distracting, and may help them focus on their work rather
than feeling responsible for the class.
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Following directions
Concerns about getting the directions wrong either because of distraction
or misunderstanding are common. Signaling the class first when giving
directions (flashing lights, clapping hands) and when possible having
directions written on the board or elsewhere may assure anxious children
that they have understood the directions.
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Class participation
Fears of getting the answer wrong, saying something
embarrassing, or simply having other kids look at them may be concerns
for an anxious child. Determine the child's comfort with either closed
ended questions (requiring a yes or no) or with opinion questions,
start with whichever is easiest. Use a signal to let the child know
that his turn is coming. Provide opportunities for the child to share
knowledge on topics in which he or she is most confident.
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Class presentations
Children
with extreme social anxiety may have difficulty with oral reports.
Consider having the child present to the teacher alone, or have the
child audiotape or videotape the presentation at home.
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Answering questions at the board
For children with social anxiety, the combination of getting the answer
wrong, and being visible to the whole class may be so overwhelming
that they may opt to avoid school altogether. Consider having the
child exempt from going up to the board until they are ready to handle
that challenge, or, begin to approach that situation by eliminating
the risk of being wrong, by simply asking the child to write the date
on the board.
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Testing conditions
Extended time on tests will ease the pressure on anxious child, and
just knowing that the time is available may obviate the need to use
it. Sometimes anxious children become distracted when they see other
children working on their tests or turning them in, they may inaccurately
assume that they don't know the material as well. Testing in an alternate,
quiet location may be preferable for some children. Consider the use
of word banks, equation sheets, to cue children whose anxiety may
make them "blank out" on rote material.
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Lunchroom/recess/unstructured activities
Free choice times can be a welcomed and necessary
break from the pressures of school, but fears of rejection in the
cafeteria or on the playground can take the fun out of free time.
Bridge the gap socially by creating ties between small groups of children.
A lunch bunch with two or three children can create a shared experience
which kids can then draw on later. When working in pairs or small
groups, don't always have children choose the groupings themselves,
alternate this with a "counting off" technique or drawing straws to
allow variability in the groupings.
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Safe person
Having one person at school who understands the child's
worries and anxieties can make the difference between a child attending
school and staying home. A guidance counselor, principal, nurse, or
teacher can be identified as a point person for the child to check
in with briefly (5-10 minutes) to help dispel worry thoughts, take
deep breaths and return to class.
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Cool down pass
Pressures build for anxious children, being able to leave the situation
briefly to get a drink of water or wash their face can allow them
to clear their heads and return to class on a less anxious track.
Since anxious children may be hesitant to ask for this and risk being
the center of attention, use an orange card which the child simply
places on his desk, or the teachers desk, which signals they are out
on break. In general anxious children are exceedingly honest and responsible
and will not take misuse this privilege.
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Assemblies/large group activities
Some children become anxious in crowds, until a child has mastered
the auditorium, allow them to sit where they feel most comfortable
(e.g., at the end of the row in the back of the auditorium), see if
they can gradually rejoin their class.
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Return after illness
Ever responsible, anxious kids may be very distressed about work they
have missed while they were out. Assign a responsible buddy to copy
notes and share handouts. If tests are given the day of the child's
return, give them the option to take the test at another time and
use the test-time to make up any other missing work.
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Field trips
Compounding the daily stress of the anxious child,
field trips include the factors of being away from home and parents,
and a change in routine. Accommodate the child's level of readiness
so that he or she can participate as fully as possible. Consider having
the child in the "teachers's group," or having parents accompany the
group until the child is ready to handle an excursion without these
supports in place.
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Change in routine/substitute teachers
Because anxious children try very hard to please and predict what
is required in a situation, changes of any sort may be experienced
as very stressful. When possible, send a note home the day before
to alert the child/family to a change in routine, this will allow
the child to process the change in his or her comfort zone and will
make the transitions go more smoothly the next day.
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Fire/safetydrills
While these drills are for a child's safety, anxious children may
be very distressed by imagining that these events were actually happening.
If there is an opportunity to signal the child in person just before
the alarm sounds, this may buffer the surprise of the drill and allow
children to mobilize with less distress.
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Homework expectations
If children are spending inordinate amounts of time
on homework because of OCD redoing, rechecking, rereading, or simply
worrying that the assignment wasn't done thoroughly enough, the teacher
can set a reasonable amount of time for homework and then reduce the
homework load to fit into that time frame. Teachers can also provide
time estimates for each assignment (this could be helpful to the entire
class), so that the anxious child can attempt to stay with 10% of
the estimated time. Eliminate repetition by having the child do every
other math question, reduce reading and writing assignments, consider
books on tape if a child is unable to read without repetition, for
a child with writing difficulties, consider having parent, teacher,
or another student "scribe" for the child while he or she dictates
the answers.
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